WOW.. this is such a tragic story - I mean its really hard here because so many are at fault for their own reasons. First, the wife is absolutely not an innocent victim, even though it is heartbreaking that she felt the only way to absolution was through killing herself. I personally feel suicide is not the answer. Each soul has its own learning lessons in this life - we have signed a contract and are meant to come here and expand our consciousness, our empathy, our love for one another - I feel if you commit suicide you are negating this contract and will have to come back and face the same types of learning lessons until the lesson is learned and the soul has been able to grow from it. When you kill yourself you are taking the easy way out and avoiding the lesson to be learned from the outcomes of the choices themselves. The husband, in my opinion, should have tried to talk to the wife - if not to forgive her - at least to acknowledge her. How many have sunk into further sorrow because they have just been completely shunned - I know he was hurting but I think he should have confronted her calmly and explained his disappointment, maybe if he still loved her tried to tell her that as upset as he is and even though she has lost his trust, he still loves her and would want to work things out for her. Unfortunately, the law, while I think they are wrong, in this situation it is very easy for it to be mis-perceived. Another reason why you probably should not ignore conflict - if the husband was so mad that he was uninterested in making amends, he should have asked her to leave. Now, I am not sure what country this family lived in, but I do know that some countries legal systems are way tougher than those here in the USA. Lots of people get tried for crimes here and get put away for things they did not do, however, that happens less frequently than the other alternative where through proper legal counsel and thorough investigations it may come back that there is now way the person committed the crime. I think in other countries there isn't as much investigation - if it looks like you did it - you did it - lock them up and throw away the key. That isn't really fair at all! The issue here is that the husband would definitely have had motive to kill her due to the situation at hand and the disgruntled feelings that spouses can have when they learned that there has been infidelity in the marriage. While it is very possible the wife did commit suicide, the husband would have had the type of motive to kill her and unfortunately that is all the law will see if they do not go back and try to further analyze the situation. This sucks all the way around for everyone.. I feel bad for the husband the most as he probably thought he was doing the right thing to not overreact to the situation, and it is awful that he is being punished for doing so. I hope he finds justice. After all - he lost his wife to cheating on him - then lost her for real - now is locked up.. bless him and keep him strong. Thank you for sharing and creating an intellectual conversation!
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Thank you - it was fun to contemplate with you on that story! I enjoyed it!
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