Behind the words parents do not want to pay if you do not go to college, these 5 things you should understand

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Son, you can not charge if you do not enter the country .... Well, why so sir? Then I will not go to college.

There may be a sense of sadness and disappointment when you hear your parents' statements. Because you have hope can soon go to the next level like your other friends. Especially until this moment you yourself have no shadow to do what if not true can not go to college.

But instead of continuing to get moody and even prejudiced and upset with parents, you should learn to think more mature. That behind the words "do not want to pay" from your father and mother there is good that you must understand. Yet your parents are just like any other parent who always wants the "best" for her children.

  1. Not unfortunately, this is the way parents encourage you who are struggling

He said love the same child, but the period do not want to charge if I do not enter PTN!

You question again the magnitude of your parents' love. Because you think, if only true unfortunately they should still pay for your college even in private. While if you just want to see the positive side, this speech your parents could be pelecut spirit to try as much as possible. You are challenged to be more focused and diligent to study in order to pass the entrance exam PTN. You also become more observant to see opportunities that are still within reach of your ability.

Yes, your parents say this is a great new way to encourage you who are fighting among the thousands of children out there.

  1. There is a pride that is felt by the father and mother when you are accepted at State College

Some say the school in private or the same country. Because smart or not someone returns to his personality. But for most parents, still studying at a public university gives more pride. How not proud if you become one of the children who managed to put aside thousands of other children? .
Tired and tired with work he has to face every day. For the sake of their struggle, if not to give the best for you.

Now it's the same, they say it because you really want to study at a state university. Not necessarily the most superior. But at least there are still frills of the country that can convince them, if there must have a good standard of learning for you. Because after all this state university or university is one of the best representations for you.

So, what now do you still think they are not affectionate, oblivious, or indifferent? While they still only want the best for their children.

Source: Hipwee