I am not a father yet, but i can talk about it as a son. Many parents believe they're just doing a great job, but they are very blind in many times. Would your children think of you when they hear 3 words?
Would they think of you when they hear "fairness, caring and integrity? We either have a lot of work to do, or we have being doing something right for a while.
Whatever it is, we should look at ourselves and examine our words and actions. It is not easy to find a person with all these elements. It kind of feels like digging for gold.
We can create many of us in this direction now, if we really want it. We are not talking about being a perfect person, because that person doesn't exist, but by just being the best of us in every moment of life. Many blessings to eveyone.
"Your kindness will always return to you in any way, shape or form"
"If you want to get an education, just travel the world"
"Beautiful things in life are beautiful, because they were hard to achieve"
"Love everybody the same way you love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you have no one to love".
"You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday".
"Never look down on someone, unless you are helping them up"
"Take care of your body, so your body takes care of you".
"You can't give others what you don't have; If you do, your're giving part of yourself".
Stay blessed.
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Great post..Really loved the amazing words they are really motivating..Yes i agree with you set an example for your kids by doing great things..Thanks for sharing..@javybar
thank you my friend :)
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@javybar I agree with you especially in this sentence: "I love everyone the same way you love yourself, and if you do not like yourself, you do not have anyone to love." Frankly the most beautiful thing I read today. Always consult your account to read more ♡♡♡ following you
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Glad you get to appreciate all these quotes. Every time I write and come out with some of these and place them in every post for people to think about. Following you now as well. Thank you very much :)
You deserve this because your publications are in the level . keep it up ♡
Thank you very much my friend, are you located in spain? I really want to go this year there.
Parents can only guide and put their offspring in the right path, but the final form of their personality will be in their hands. You can walk along with your child. You will reach a crossroads. Your child will have to think for himself. So it is important to teach him how to start thinking. , Not to decide what you should think about.
Everything was difficult before it was easy, and we would be stronger whenever we tried: one of the best things you can do for your child as he grows is to let him do things himself, be strong and responsible, and have the freedom to experience things on his own terms. Take the bus or the train, learn from life directly, allow him to be one of the best people, to believe in himself more, and to make an effort, to put your feet in life and go a learning process, which may be difficult at first but in the long term safer and more worthwhile.
I totally agree with you. The more self-confidence children get the better for their own personal development when they are growing and they they are adults. Great thoughts my friend. Thank you very much.
Javybar , ser madre o padre no se aprende o te lo enseñan , nuestros hijos aprenden y asimilan muchas actitudes y hasta gestos nuestros , nustros hijos aprenden valores de nosotros , por lo tanto tenemos que ver que es lo que aprenderan , ser madre es lo considero yo , para toda la vida asi mi hijo sea mayor de edad , el sabe que siempre estare para el , y cuando muera pido a DIOS ser su angel cuidador .
FELIZ DIA .
bonitos pensamientos. No dudo que su hijo haya crecido mal, se ve que si tubo muy buenas enseñanzas con su madre. Muchas gracias por la opinion y se le desea lo mejor :)
The only thing my baby thinks right now is in my breast, he is always hungry. I will try to do my best in raising him, with all the knowledge and information that I have.
Best wishes for you and him. Enjoy him a lot :)
your post always alot of learning new thing matter perfectly.fairness,integrity and caring this is a very important thing for every children.every parents should be good teaching giving of their children.i am a mother.i think good teaching may be my children perfect educative doing.I am always care my child.its very valuable of our children future success.I appreciate your good motivation.everything is perfect.I like ur every post.thank u very much for ur good thought. @javybar
Thank you very much for your kind words. Never knew such a young woman could be a mother already. Congrats. Try your best for your future and the future of your children. Best wishes :)
thank u for your good comment and support... @javybar
A very deep question @javybar, everybody must be thinking, how to get a happiness and success with his work. Because I see about life today, it's all in the value of the material we have and what work we do. But I myself just think, how to be able to make my life happy, although with a little material that I have. Because in my opinion, happiness is not in terms of the meteri we have.
The most important thing in my life is that I really want to be happy for both my parents. Because in my opinion, happy parents is a child's duty. What we must definitely be happy our parents first, then after that we marry, and happy children, isrti or husband. That's what I've been thinking. Thanks for sharing ... :)
I think the best anyone can do is to just give your best and keep learning along the way. No one really knows for sure how to be a parent till they're there. Material things make us comfortable, but it's not everything. Just be someone that can inspires others and you will inspire your own children.
"What Do You Children Think Of You?" Your word can always be a motivation for the crowd. I love the way you write, because you always share about life. Every parent, would want the best for her child, because parents will be happy to see his children succeed and parents do not ask anything from us. But we as children, never forget with our parents, because our parents are more valuable than anything we have in the world. So, try to make him happy as long as he is alive. thank you @javybar.
I thank you for the appreciation of the content. I do try my best to provide good things to talk about. Thank you for your contribution. :)
Your are right @javybar be a parents is not eassy . When we were child then our parents care us but now all change because iam a father I have a daughter now I have to work hard for my child.
Keep it up my friend. We all try and also make mistakes.
you are right
great one and very true because children's see from there parents eyes ... so be the example for them ... @jabybar good one
great point. Be the example you wanna be in the world. Thank you my friend
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Very true said @javybar. Without parents love child can't gain brain power and character. Must give love to them both father and mother. They find love everywhere.
totally agree! Thanks :)
Excellent post friend and no doubt being a parent we need to stick with fairness, caring and integrity because it is a great course and by adopting this course we surely see fantastic results in future, thanks for sharing your nice thoughts with is friend, Stay blessed
These 3 words are powerful when describing a human being my friend. Thank you for your support.
You are absolutely right . It is easy to give birth to a child, but it is difficult to raise. This is a big responsibility. Family education for parents is primarily a self-education.
you're very correct. Only parents know what they do for their children.
Good dealing with your family is the best thing in life..❤️❤️
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I'm agree 110% with sir @javybar . This is truth many parents they dont know about kids problems . When kids talk with us we listen properly and what they want we help . We must behave with them like they are our friends not our kids . Then you feel they never scared with parents . We must be friendly with them . Then they share all problem wth parents.
Thanks for sharing a very importent post.
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Very true. Offering some type of friendship is actually a good tool to use. It does work for the most part, but sometimes kids take advantage of that and try to do anything they want, specially in the teenager time. I took care of my younger brother after my mother passed and it was not an easy task just to be a brother. I had to be a parent sometimes because it was needed to guide him into a good path. Offering friendships to children will work most of the time if the parent know how to be a friend (lots of them can't), thank you my friend
I'm very sorry to hear about your mother . Yes your right but if you are good friend with your younger brother and kids so you understand very well . You know about them . When they want take advantage your friendship you know about everything.
like my younger brother is very close to me but he respect to much . Never take advantage but he always help me . And if I far he really miss me . He is very loving younger brother and i'm very proud of him .
Thanks sir @javybar for very kind words.
Stay blessd!
Good to know there is a good relationship with your brother. Stay blessed :)
Yes,you word are right but its really difficult to say because we can’t tell it according to parents prospective way,our parents work so hard and love us so much but we think that not enough for us,i think when we become parents then we know....anyway always positive post @javybar
that is definitely a very fair comment. We can't really assume all parents are just not doing a good job, we were only stating about the 3 words in the content :)
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Every children learns most of what they know from their parents cause parents are our first teachers, i saw drawing where the mom was saying if you don’t work hard and study you’ll end up like him(a beggar) instead of saying work hard and study well so you can help people like him.the difference are in the parents and yes many parents are blind in many times.thanks for sharing.
wow that's the type of blindness i was talking about. There is a misconception that you are only valuable if you only have money or you are someone important. We are all important and we are all human beings that matter. Thank you for you contribution.
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Come on spammers won’t be dumb enough to use the same last name and all are muslim names cause we are muslims.real @magoo has even downvoted this guy and you’ll be dumb enough to believe this guy without searching further.steemit is a platform made to be used by everyone so why is that all the family members and relatives can’t use it? Before acting you should search ,there are Facebook accounts and instgrams of each of people you are accusing of being a spammer,idiot. @javybar i would want you to search more and look at our blogs and social medias before acting rashly,this kind of people ruin the hardwork of the people who work hard for steemit for everyone to use and when everyone from a big family uses it,big fake heroes like him comes.if you wanna know anything or confirm i am open to it cause i am not gulity of this dummy’s acquisition.thanks. even your spelling and grammar is wrong so how can you be a bot and if not you are also not the real one.
"fairness, caring and integrity" these three things every parents teaches the children and give awareness. And in my life i learn from my parents, they taught me always care for everything most care about yourself, live work be honestly and trustworthy and I focused that opinion of my parents. My parents is role model for me, and many other thing's about life he teaches me.
wow that's very sweet. Your parents must be very important for you. I would feel the same way. Glad you do have this feeling about them. Congrats!
Yeah! thankYou Friend :)
well said. We should understand the children demands. Children don't need materialistic thing and money all the time. They need parents proper care and affection. Today parents mostly do same mistake repeatedly, instead of giving time to children they go after money by consuming their all time. In the end they themselves become ill and children also complain their parents didn't give time to them. very nice and inspirational post. keep sharing @javybar
Childhood life is better life. Where father is king to every son. I could think, my father is most stronger person of the world.
Good thinking about your father. Glad he is like a king to you :)
@javybar, Absolutely greatest quote indeed important discussion. I'm a not father too. But after June I'll be father definitely. Yep I agree with your points. Some both parents working a job every days. ( including 8-12 hours) They goes early and came lately to home. Within this time parents can't do find their children what to do. Why??? they busy with working. Children feel alone without parents love. They find love another. Final result is they going worst way and cannot re-build their life.
You do have a great point. Time is crucial in the growing process where parents don't have enough time to provide to their children. This is where parents need to be smart and find better ways to bring food to the table. Being steemit is a great choice, but we all need to try lots of projects as well. Wish you the best around June. Congratulations in advance :)
Thank you very much my friend.
There is no perfect person or perfect education, is up to us to do our best.
In my words please treat children like your purely friend
Good my friend parents have to work hard and they have to work hard for their child. Its very important for parrents to care their child
In educating children should be with perfect affection so that when they grow up they will understand how the meaning of affection and they will give their love for the parents and also against others ..
I am very happy to see your voice. and with your voice this time, I can rate myself especially. and definitely friends in steemit agree with my opinion
Great motivation dear I like your post too because your posts are very motivative
always think positive to others, live life with a lot of helping others must be life will be beautiful, do good wherever there is surely your life tentram thank you
I am not parent but iam a son of my parents my parents are great parents because they are every thing done for me but I have nothing done for them. I love my mother and father
What a beautiful writing.really
Great sharing
Great motivation dear.. I like your post.thanks for sharing
us...@javybar
thanks for share
i am following your every post
I think as a parent, the actions always convey a more strong message than words alone...
Children often learn passively from parent's action...
extraordinary explanation of the article, I like, keep sharing your motivation, good job
Exactly...Children learns what parents taught them and what they want their children ti learn...For them Parents are role model...This is why we have to teach them integrity and caring from our action...We should set an example for them so when ever they try to distract they get remind of our action...This will lead to better life with feeling of humanity @javybar
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so good and thoughfull post dear..thanks for sharing...
that's pretty cool to know. thank for sharing
Very good post .. Thank you for sharing .
Best of luck .
i think childelren are very cute...
thanks a lot for sharing this post...
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Fairness , integrity and caring are three amazing words tht every parents should teach their children.you always want to teach steemians..your words always leave a great impact on me
Thanks for sharing your experience.
I think H. Jackson Brown talk is 100% right.
Thanks for sharing lovely parents history and life style.
he is a famous person,his world is also famous.
thank you for sharing.
Some famous quotes regarding PARENTING:
"Whatever you would have your children become, strive to exhibit in your own lives and conversation."
—Lydia H. Sigourney
"There is no such thing as a perfect parent. So just be a real one."
—Sue Atkins
"To be in your children's memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today."
—Unknown
Thanks a lot dear @javybar for sharing very important issue on parenting. Great share. Keep it up and Stay Blessed!
I like your post beautifull for childs
this post remind me my past life..
thank you for post.
nice post on children and parents life like your post 😊