I agree - steemit has a significant learning curve. Funny enough, I think that's partly what made it more fun and interesting when I joined. That being said: I'm sure I'm super lazy for other shit. :)
Honestly, I can't blame people who work hard on certain things, and they just want to relax and be lazy for other parts of their day or life. I will only blame them when they think that they are entitled to their laziness, ie, the carpenter dude who expects his girlfriend to do his laundry. Laziness has its cost, just like every choice out there.
I blame the carpenter dude...and I blame people who don't want to take the effort to learn...but I understand wanting to be lazy. I think it's okay to be lazy in the short term, you just have to put in the effort sometimes.