My last post proclaimed a happy life in which I thought I was living. Well last night after walking in from work I was hit by a blow that might be to much to come back from. My wife of 10 Years said that we needed to have a talk. I knew from the expression on her face that what would follow would be devastating. She simply told me that she was not happy anymore and was going to be leaving, I was speechless and immediately broke down into tears, when I asked what was the real reason she finally came clean and said "She had been talking to a guy that she has known since she was 12" and she has been chatting with him through Facebook for the last Month.
My main concern at this point was what about our children and she answered quickly saying she was not going to take the kids, she said I was a good Father and could not take them from me. Now I sit here lost and alone, I have millions of thoughts running through my head like "What did I do wrong" and "Did I fail as a Husband". I have never been through this kind of devastation in my life and do not what I can do now, but I know that the Kids are my number 1 Priority.
Facebook has been my nemesis for years and it would seem that it has found a way to rip out my heart and broadcast it to me in my own feed. Life continues for me, where I will go or what I will do is up to Fate. I only hope that for this time of my life turns out to be an Everything Happens for a Reason kind of experience. Fornow I have Steemit and my tears.
Thanks for listening my friends and hopefully we can make our futures bright together without life's devastation's
Wow, I'm not sure what to say, but yes, I'll agree with @sweetnsnarky. Blame your wife, not Facebook. You must be able to assign blame to the right person in order to move on with your life.
Thanks for the kind words, I have to move on but my love for her is killing me.
Oh my, I am terrible sorry to hear this. It must be very frightening to consider what comes next in your life, being on your own with the children.
I know it feels like it, but Facebook didn't ruin your life, your wife's activities on FB are to blame. I am sure that doesn't matter to you at this point.
I will look forward to hearing about how you cope. Again, I am very sorry.
I thank you for your kind words. I know she is to blame but my love for her makes me point fingers elsewhere. It is hard to invest such a long time into someone for no explanation. Our life is at a great point and we do not argue, so non of this makes sense. Thanks for posting.
Social media is a tool for bad or good things, I can't stand Facebook for many reasons. I am so sorry, finding out your spouse no longer wants you is worse than having someone die, I went through it myself. Being a parent will keep you going through the worst of it, don't forget to take care of your health.
Yeah I have to concentrate on my kids, I know they are the focus of my future now. I am depressed but and trying to find Light out of this darkness. Thanks for the kind words
Oh my god sweetie I am so sorry. I know this is tough but you need to be strong for your kids and know that everything happens for a reason. This is not the end but a new beginning for you, just embrace this moment and fight for the future. My heart is with you. :*(