Never would I embarrass my partner or anyone else in the PUBLIC!
Such can be so mean - a happenstance where even onlookers bury their head in shame when they are not the recipients. How sad most men enjoy these while most ladies try to use it to prove a point or show disapproval. It enables another level of bitterness that lasts for more than a moment; sometimes a lifetime. The memories don't fade on a whisker. Please take note of these... It can damage an age-long relationship in a moment!