Thanks for the discord tip I guess I will try that next.
As for Steemit.chat, I have spent over 10 hours yesterday hanging in both steemitabuse-appeals and steemitabuse trying to get in contact with anybody in charge. I am not sure if there was simply no-one of relevance there, or wether I was being ignored. I may try again later.
It's easier said than done, to make an appeal. Imagine how this must be for n00bs who are not as determined as I am