I think we all experienced this. I have few Steemian friends who just disappeared on Steemit and one reason is that they just don't see the value of Steemit, not yet because in order for us to get where you want we have to get out of our comfort zone.
What makes you happy? What are your favorite things to do? These simple things will help you write a very good story. Do not achieve a perfect blog because it'll drain your energy.
When I started I had a vision and set a goal for myself. I even forgot to shower for few days because I was busy just commenting on every steemians. Do not lose hope, we are all even equal opportunities here, we just have to learn from the successful ones and experiment on our own.
How often do you get online steemit?