That's another great blog my friend, and it looks like you now have some great friends too. i think that the best way to tell if someone has an abundance mindset here on steemit is to see if they up-vote their own blogs and posts. i think if this feature was removed, then those that wish to only take, would wither away and drift back to facebook and those of us that wish to contribute good work and pay it forward will continue to spread the love and forge new friendships. Don't forget, give Shanti a belly rub for me :)
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Oh grasshopper...the old wax on wax off..to self upvote or not to self upvote???
As a relative newbie...I know not the answer...but let's remove the monetised aspect from the equation for a mo shall we?
If I value myself, and the energy I have used to write articles then surely I should upvote them, standing solidly behind the ideas or thoughts I have expressed?
But isn't it also a tad narcissistic? And heaven knows there are enough of those in power running the world already!
I sometimes see whales upvoting their own comments, (and their own posts) and then commenting on others steemians post but not upvoting them, or their comments, and replies....it seems to happen rather a lot! And in the ethos of a caring sharing community this, I admit, puzzles me greatly!
I would love to know what your opinion is @realtreebivvy? And @barge and @ jakeybrown?
Hey Lily, I'm in complete agreement with what @realtreebivvy says, especially these two powerful paras:
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I'd add that by not using bots and not self-voting, I'm not using means to raise my profile and draw users to my blog, and can therefore feel free. If I entice someone here, then I am also raising expectations which I am sensitive to, and would feel oblidged to meet in some way. It does feels uncomfortably narcissistic. This is hassle I do not want. It pressurises me to behave and respond in ways that may not feel right - but too late, I've set the ball in motion and have to deal with the consequences. I don't wish to make life hard for myself, I want to keep it simple and I no longer wish to disrespect myself (or anyone else) at even the most subtle of levels by being fake. What others do, or what effect it may have on my earnings, is not particularly relavant (abundance mindset :). I do not need to seek external authority and I do not need to justify myself. I kinda like it this way :D
Thank you @realtreebivvy and @barge for your thoughts, advice and opinions!
I am grateful to know that there are whales out there doing great work, I have not run into many so far because I have been sticking to waters I understand...posting my blog from sincerity and truth, writing from integrity and hoping to inspire a few people along the way, as they have inspired me.
My own little mission is The Kindness Code which I began just a few short weeks ago when I joined steemit, when I realised that what the world needs is MORE and more kindness. That any evolvution of consciousness must include basic ethics, sound moral principles coupled with kindness, as default settings, if you will.
And that seemed to resonate with the ethos and community spirit here on steemit. At the end of each day as I brush my teeth I have to be able to look myself in the eyes and know that I have stood in alignment with my own truth. Being fixated on upvotes, popularity, shallowness and petty behaviour are of no interest to me whatsoever.
Perhaps I am just naturally narcissism averse....but even posting pictures of myself is something I resist in this superficial selfie world!
@barge your wisdom on the subject of abundance has stimulated a great deal of thought in me today and its blooming marvellous when someone does that for you...yes that was a little pun on the "snowdrop" debate! 😊
Ha Ha ha - i thought David Carradine was awesome in kung fu - gwass hopper :) that was a longtime ago....
i'm always open to criticism, and as soon as i press that "post" tab, then i stand behind my words 100%, until such time that someone corrects me and my truth is exposed as a point of view only.
i think if you believe in the value of your work, then others will see this in the quality of what you write and up-vote. If you don't believe in your own worth, then chances are that you will up-vote yourself to boost your self esteem. If the self up-vote was removed, then the only way a whale could generate income would be to pay it forward and contribute to the steem platform.
There are some amazing whales and Dolphins on this platform, one of which is called @fulltimegeek who has delegated his steem to 54 different accounts, over a million dollars worth to what he has called the stewardsofgondor of which i'm one, The stewards have gone on to further delegate their steem to over 100 recipients... leading by example and paying it forward. i'm still only a plankton 2 months in - but with my delegated steem, my up-vote is worth 31c - see above i could have up-voted my 396 posts for a profit and have more steem power, but i would rather lead by example and pay it forward - one vote for me would be one vote less for someone like you.
if i can find good quality blogs and posts, or really nice people wanting to do the right thing, then i will give my support and up-vote helping to make this platform a welcoming, friendly and a rewarding place to be:- belly rub for you too @lilygolightly :)