The only time delegation is automatic is when you initially sign up for a free account and it comes with a tiny amount. That delegation taken back over time by the owner. Any delegation to you will show a (+). Any delegation you you give will show (-). If you delegate to someone else, be sure to leave some small amount of that SP delegation to yourself. If you delegate 100%, your account will not function as the SP generates Bandwitdth. I recommend leaving at least 3 SP worth of delegation to yourself.
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