My guess is you've never been to steemit.chat. None of things you are bring up are remotely true. I concur with @venuspcs and @spookypooky points of view on this.
How Do I Know?
Because I'm there literally 24-7 . Ok, once in a while you'll get the whole boobs for noobs comments BUT this is not any shot an the women of steemit. It is false and unfair to plaster this on the front page of SteemIt.
Just my 2 cents.
-steemitqa <- my steemit.chat handle by the way if you want to talk about this.