LOL at your first sentence.
I'm new here as well. I feel like a new kid who's started at a funky high school that has the art classes she really wants, while trying to work out which of the kids are the ones that are putting fart bombs in the cafeteria and messing it up for everyone else. Who are the scammers and what's acceptable and what's selfish shit I don't want a part of. It's quite trippy.