Take a deep breath. Realize that even with your flaws you are a person worthy of love, kindness, and friendship. Try to practice a few acts of everyday kindness and express everyday gratitude.
I belong to the second category of steemians. However, I have made friends here in a short while.
Practising act of kindness is one of the sweetest thing to do on earth and on steemit. Greast post @aggroed.