Spot on - strange I agree with another of your posts for the second time within one week! Do not get excited lol!
You are absolutely right, people need to accept it, i hate the whining although I understand first you feel hit, hurt when you got a flag. But indeed different people have different views on how to use a flag. Well @transisto indeed has his investor view which I respect - I do not agree with all his views on certain things but this is because i come more from the content shit site - if i would be a major investor I would act different, we shall really not take all too personally! At least @transisto is doing good for the community - the one getting the flag is not happy that is human, maybe a direct conversation without too much emotion might help here.
Get a flag, deal with it. Worst thing is to get into fights, arguments and whining about it, that does not help. I got several flags in the past - i was hurt, i was feeling fuck you bastard first - however I learned and I see it as a good tool for the community as a whole.