There is really a lot to balance here. You need to balance the desire to make profit and the desire to be authentic, the optimism that can help you go far and he cynicism that sometimes here are some problems with the structure and culture, and then there's the balance between checking feed, new and hot/trending.
I need to go it and find new followers, otherwise I am writing for myself and the few people who trust that my posts are high quality after only here weeks. At the same time I don't want to neglect those people who are loyal readers and new friends who I feel a connection with.
It's quite a challenge but I feel I'm learning a lot about myself in the process.
I agree with your points! It's a fun challenge here though as its rewarding to spend time here! :D