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All parents will crave the best for their children, including growing and developing well. Often we as parents instead do something that is bad for growth and development of children. This is because the child is a reflection of the attitude and words of parents in front of him. Here are some things parents should not do in front of children.
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- Quarrel with partner
In the household, differences of opinion often occur. Disputing each other's arguments sometimes arises emotions that make the debate hot. However, do not fight with your partner in front of the children. Adu mouth and even there until the physical fighting in front of children, will make them think that Father and Mother is not one unity, but 2 people who are different and do not love each other. In addition, children will imitate words and deeds that parents do when fighting. Better discuss the problem with a cold heart.
- Said roughly
Whether intentional or unintentional, too often out of rough words in front of the child means Indirect invites to come to do the same. Because parents are a reflection for their children. Especially if you scold the child with harsh words. It will make thousands of brain cells a child will die from a scream of harsh words out of the mouth.
- Lie
Lying is already a common practice. Without realizing it, lying is done in front of the child, the child will imitate the act. Because they assume that "there is no harm in lying, yet my parents are also lying."
Busy with gadgets
As parents, we should not keep busy with gadgets if in front of children. Encourage children to play while studying or reading a book so that in the growing age and growing, children will also spend time to play while learning and reading books.
- Too often promise
Promising something to the child is not at all prohibited, but do not let what the parents promise is actually a fantasy. Promises that parents do not keep, will make children do not believe again with the words of parents.
- Talk about other people
Maybe some parents will consider talking about other people with a partner or a friend, will not be known and understood by the child. But, the reality is not. Some children will act as if they do not listen to the conversation of their parents, but at the same time the child will digest what he heard. So, do not be strange if suddenly the child will say "Oh, this is the guy who says stingy yes" to the person who is the subject of your conversation with your spouse or friends.
That is the things that are prohibited to do if in front of children. Remember !!! all actions of parents who see the child, good or bad deeds, will be emulated by the child in the future. So, be careful to say and do if in front of the child