Hi Steemians! My topic tonight is about how to educate children based on their personal character. In a family life, every parent would expect their children to grow into good children, be proud and have a positive character or qualities in everything.
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The key to success of parents in educating children is to recognize the child's personality. By knowing the personality of the child, it will be easier for parents to understand the child and determine how to educate him.
Many parents think that dealing with children is a troublesome and difficult thing, why this can happen and what to do right to overcome the child's behavior. For example, sometimes when children feel anxious, then what should parents do? Children moody, lazy, stubborn and so on. It is in these moments that the child needs the handling of parents or educators.
Of course as an educator or mentor must understand the type of child's personality and how to deal with it. like a child who has an angry type of what to do, whether to be fought angrily ? a child whose type gentle is tortured and forced.?
By knowing the personality of the child, it will be easier for parents to understand the child and determine how to educate him. because Every child is a different person and has the character and personality of each other. There is no child like personality that exactly the same as each other, each child has its own uniqueness.
Understanding Personality
Personality can be defined as the overall nature, behavior and attitude that reflects one's character, the way he acts and behaves, thinks, including the physical and mental aspects, the ways of interacting and the purpose of life shown in his daily life.
Factors that support the formation of the child's personality?
1. Nature Congenital or Genetic.
Some aspects of personality are the result of congenitality or something inherited in one lineage. For example, the nature and potential of a child will show some similarities to his or her parents or other relatives. It could also characterize the nature of a person going through several generations before reappearing on another offspring.
2. Parenting
The influence of parents is very important for the character education of children, because parents are the closest to the child in their daily life. The role of parents in educating children also play a role in shaping the personality of children, because children will live according to the direction of parents, and embrace the values that are also followed by parents. So the child will base his way of thinking and his actions on those values.
3. Child Development
At every stage of child development there will also be a mental and physical development. This stage of child development will affect the child's personality as well, because the child learns to deal with everything in their life with different reactions. They will learn to cope with various problems according to the stage of their ages and their physical abilities, as well as begin to learn the role of the child in the family.
4. Environment
Child social interaction can also affect the development of his personality. In an environment which the child grows, the people and place of residence will have an effect in the personality of the child being formed. For example associating with other families, peers, teachers, and other adults, this will be a way of learning in character education of childrens. Childrens will learn patterns of social interaction from their environment with families control. The function of a family institution is to exercise social control over the child.
5. Education
It's important how the education received by the child can also influence the formation of his personality. Education in all aspects including family education will reinforce the child's self-concept and adaptation patterns to his daily-developing life. The role of the family in the education of the child also serves to direct the child in the science that he can.
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Basic Personality Type
There are several personality types that can be seen in a child
First, the Sanguine personality type.
This type of meli likes the thing practical, happy and cheerful always, like surprises, happy with social activities.
Ways To deal with this type try to recognize the difficulty in completing the tasks. Know that this type is like to talk without thinking, so sometimes speaking to offend the feelings of others, but in fact they are just joking with their verbal. So, must be clever to react to it. Be aware of this type also likes variations means not monotonous and likes flexibility.
Help them not to receive more than they can do, praise them if they gets the achievement or something she achieves. To note is this type of Sangunis easy emotions then need to be careful with a smooth feeling. Give rewards if he gets a certain achievement or event examples during his birthday.
Second, painting Type.
We need to know that this personality type self like independence, firm, fiery, like challenge, free.
How to deal with this type do direct what is desired or direct to the point, focus in conversation, talk with simple means short solid and precise. Also note that this Koleris type is indeed a gifted leader, if speaking assumes he is always right, give and share responsibilities, sometimes not mercy, sometimes speaking but have no intent to harm. Do not refrain from it. Avoid using feelings and avoid being flexible and soft.
Third, Melancholy personality type.
Melancholy: like the detail, save the anger, perfect, like the routine activities, like the clear instructions.
Ways To deal with this type do a strategy with careful preparation and planning, make notes, serve with detail, serve with data and facts. Because know that this type of melancholy is very sensitive feelings and easily hurt, so be careful not to offend use it with heart.
Their motivation when they are less optimistic or less sure so that will appear confident. Do not let him be depressed praise with a sense of sincerity and affection, give a chance if indeed he wants to be alone again, please keep his promise as expected. Because this type is very timely. And keep in mind that the type melancholy avoid too familiar with it, do not change the plan that has been mature, do not change the promise that has been agreed. Avoid the words of sound origin for those who do not like.
Fourth, Phlegmatis.
People who have this type of person they like cooperation, avoid conflict or are happy with peace and quiet, do not like changes suddenly, like things to be sure, the other person is nice.
How to deal with this type of Phlegmatis is to communicate patiently in handling affairs, ask what his favorite, give time to answer if there are questions or thoughts that exist on him. Never betray them in goodness, do not force or pressure to do spontaneously, do not cut off the conversation. They need immediate encouragement, as they often procrastinate their work because of the need for control. A little forced to make a decision on something. Encourage him to accept his responsibilities.
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Understand and be educators or parents who understand the personality of children by understanding the types above. Understanding these types is easy and beautiful in dealing with your child's various types. May be useful.
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Nice post @fataelrumy.. very useful 👍
Thank you Very much..