In this modern society as most families have more to give, children are used to have everything provided by their parents.
Taking things for granted is really a natural process since parents are giving the fish to their children rather than guiding them how to fish for themselves.
Most parents may only discover what they had to do when their children enter into adulthood where they lack of the survival skills. No matter how much regrets, time cannot be turned back.
How can we help our children and pupils to have the survival skills to cope with the ever changing society where change is the only constant?
As an educator and parent in the area of education
Spoon-feeding is what most parents and teachers are used to.
It is really hard to stop ourselves from providing the information that our children ask.
In order to help this new generation to have self-directed skills to fish out new knowledge that they do not know on their own, it is important not to provide the answers that they required immediately.
Learn to be the facilitator of knowledge that many courses and lectures of educational institutes are trying to get us to do.
Direct them to possible resources rather than the answers.
These are just some examples of what you can do:-
Get them to find their answers using internet.
Life skills to cope with future unpredictable job requirements by gaining the skills and knowledge needed on their ownDirect them to find the knowledgeable others.
Understand how they can find the required talents, knowledge or skills that they need from their peers or surrounding people. Let them see the importance of working as a community and how they can cooperate with others to accomplish tasks that they find it hard due to lack of the required knowledge or skills.Use your questioning technique
Use of open-ended questions is really one of the most power teaching tools that an effective teacher uses regularly. By using open-ended questions, you can help your children to reflect as well as refine their thoughts without giving them with answers directly.
You will find that at the end of the day, knowledge and skills that they gain on their own will last longer in their permanent memory. It will benefit them for life even when they enter into adulthood.
When your children want something from you as a parent.
With the advancement of modern technology, our children may have many desires from internet and television.
Peer pressure can also be one of the factors where others have so they also need to have.
These are just some of the things that some parents are doing:-
Helping out at home to get paid
Nothing comes free where parents have to work to get paid. Getting your children to do simple household chores to get some extra cash that they want to buy the things that they wantCreate or make things from recycled materials
Teach children to use their creativity to make useful simple things from recycled materials to sell them away. They can create their own blog shop to sell their thingsAn agreement contract
Set achievable objective for your child to fulfil to get rewarded)
Teaching children how to fish not only develop their future life skills to cope with future challenges, they will also feel great achievement and ownership getting knowledge and things that they want using their own effort.
They will also value what they get more as they have to put in effort to get what they need.
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I agree with you on these points. I also use stickers and treats as payment too for good behaviour, but paying the kids to do chores is something I do. I love the idea of making things out of recycled materials to sell. I think it might be time to let them loose with the sharpies.
Thank you for reading and responding to my article. Stickers and treats are effective external motivation especially for younger children. Using sharp objects does need lots of ground rules set, it is something not all of us are comfortable with. Close monitoring is really necessary.
Sharpies are a brand of permanent markers that can be used to decorate glass and plastics
Oh.. Thanks for letting me know. I can imagine how fun it can be to decorate recycled things using these markers!
I fully agree with those points. I see that parents are generally too busy in Singapore to guide kids to think on their own. The quickest way will be to provide the answers directly or, even worse, ask the kids not to ask questions.
Yes. Definitely a good observation! Thanks for the comment!
I sooo agree on this. I used to freak out because my hubby's ex-boss used to ask him to do her kids projects, like finding all the info on the net etc. How will those kids EVER make it in the working world if they cannot be self-sufficient or responsible. And in this case you can hardly blame the kids, it's the persons who or doing their kids a disfavour.
Thanks for your reply. It is true that some parents need to let go and let their children try on their own. Independence is really what most educators and parents would like to groom in our pupils to cope with future challenges.
Very interesting i thought this article will be aboit real fishing with fishies:)i like how you suggest to create things from recycled materials.
Thank you for reading!
I love your ideas, I find them practical and fun to apply with the little ones and the most important thing is that they learn! thanks for sharing!!
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