Are you a mistress? , 2nd choice?, number 2?, past time? If it is yes , are you happy with that?
Mistress are one of the problem in a family.Some husband are not contended in thiere own wife, that's why they are looking for other woman to spend time with them.
As a woman U should know ur limitation and once u meet a guy u should know first if they are single or married because most of them are liar. If u know that the Man U met is already married please step back and quit he's not the only man in this world it doesn't mean that you loved him u will stick with him even u know that u have family that u will destroy. Have respect on yourself. Your just a temporary lust, love,affection and u will never be a permanent one.
Don't be fool to all his promises that he loved you, planning all the future for both of you, giving all the expensive things to you, telling you your not his only a past time, that he cared about you, he loved you very much and he will always stay with you. Don't let those words deceived you, think about yourself and your situation , whatever happens at the end your still a Mistress and your not an original wife.
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You think u will agreed to stay with him if he will not tell you all this pretty lies? , You think u will stay with him if he's not giving u what u want without benefits? You think u will stay with him if he will always fight you? Ofcourse "NO". And as a mistress he will always hide you infront of many people , u don't have freedom to show your relationship in public. Your always Athome waiting for him when he will come back and stay with you because things are so complicated.
At the end of the story all your effort , trust , loved that you gave to your Mam is useless , because at the end he will realized that his family is more important than you. The family he build, the kids, the dreams that they tried to fulfill, every good things they planned for his family he will remember and realized it that he do a huge mistake. In the end as a mistress you don't have any rights to hold him and beg him to stay, your not a real wife. Anytime he will leave you and stay with his true family. Think about your self.
Don't be a mistress. Don't be fooled !! Find other man who can marry you and build a real family , not you are the one to destroy others family . Loved and respect your self, find a single and available man not a married man and u will take a risk for the sake of your relationship.
Don't be proud because your beautiful , sexy and good in bed that's y he left his real wife because she's not capable to take care of herself because she priority her family , her kids ,her husband and she forget herself. Don't compare yourself as a mistress to real wife. Your still beautiful and sexy because u don't have any responsibilities to do. No stress in your life that's y u have time for yourself .
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Until when you will stay as a mistress? And whatever happened your always a number 2, a second choice if the original is not available.
To all those mistress change your life now, it's not yet late for you to change.
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