It is human nature to pass judgment. I'm reading this book right now called Blink by Malcolm Gladwell and he says that though we think it takes minutes, even hours to analyze a person/thing/situation, a part of our brain can make judgments (thin-slice) in two seconds.
Also, have you considered wearing eyeglasses to change your image? 😂😂
I did! All the time. But I always stopped wearing them because my eyes would always hurt. I'll wear one these days.