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Thx both of my parents still here and that's just another something you just don't expect to happen that your granchild dies before you never mind a parent..
My mum lost my younger brother when i was toddler he was only a few months old. i don't rememeber him. just from pics. but its really saddened her a lot as she was really close and he was her first granchild. my eldest.. although she always wanted a daughter and had 5 boys. they had a special relationship. Just sad really it was so sudden and nothing anyone could of done or known.
Just makes it so hard to understand and make sence of something you cannot make sense of and i've kind of come to accept that now.. but still everything takes time... getting over this loss of all losses not really something i think i will ever get over. but will learn to cope with.