You are still a virgin until the time you choose to have sex with
someone.
This is it. A rape victim, a sexually assaulted person..... They should not feel victimised or disvirgined, they should feel their whole lives disappeared with the force and brutality accorded them. If they didn't give their bodies to someone, even if the person steals their bodies over and over and over again, they should know that they certainly have the right to reclaim what has been stolen from them at anytime, and give it to the person they think is deserving of it.
Nice one here, @shemzy.