MY TRIP HOME (Vol. 2)

in #story7 years ago (edited)

The final leg of our journey to Ohio was a beautiful drive. The gloominess and rain of the previous day finally subsided. As you can see, Amstel was a little too relaxed from mixture of sunshine and calming drone of the tires on the highway.

Just before we crossed the border into Ohio we passed through a gigantic wind farm. Just the site of this massive effort to harness the power of Mother Nature to provide clean energy gave me hope. It was a good reminder that not everyone in this country of ours is asleep.

My next thrill came from passing under this sign. A certain calm came over me when I saw the familiar rolling hills and wildflowers that dotted the Ohio landscape. When I was a boy my parents would load my brother and I into the car and we’d explore the state from corner to corner.


After a reminiscing with my parents, a wonderful home cooked dinner of chicken and noodles, and a good night’s sleep we decided to set out for our old neighborhood the next morning. I wasn’t fully prepared for what I saw.

So much had changed that it was difficult for my brain to process it. My father worked so hard to maintain the 760 square foot house we grew up in and to see it in such a sad state of disrepair a mere thirteen years later was heartbreaking. So many memories were made inside these four walls that now were more than showing their age.

Right next door was where Mrs. Werkhaven lived. Since all of my grandparents had already passed by the time I was ten she was my surrogate grandmother, a very stern and learned one. She taught me to play the piano at four and we would sit on her porch and sip lemonade in the summer and she would tell me about her world travels.

We traveled past Eastmoor high school. Unfortunately I didn’t get much textbook learning in the four years I was there, but did learn a thing or two about survival and psychology. During the late eighties and early nineties this school was infested with gangs, mainly a faction of the L.A. Crips who reaped huge profits from the crack epidemic.

As a result, I don’t have the typical high school memories of proms and football games that many enjoyed but we did have good times. Looking back, I understand that there was a reason for everything I experienced there. Later, when becoming a member of the business world, I quickly recognized that many of those gang members were every bit as smart as most executives, but were just on the opposite side of the law.

Next we drove by the Grill & Skillet. I bussed tables and was a dishwasher here my senior year of high school. Restaurant work was some of the hardest I ever did in my life. I met some real characters here and what I earned at this job allowed me to buy my first car.


“It’s a funny thing coming home. Nothing Changes. Everything looks the same, feels the same, even smells the same. You realize what’s changed is you.” - F. Scott Fitzgerald


German Village was the next stop in our journey. It was always a dream of mine to publish a bestseller and come back here and buy an old house with a garden. The picture below are fine examples of the brick cottages that the German immigrants built in the mid-1800’s.

The Book Loft was my favorite bookstore in the entire city when I lived here. This place was instrumental in shaping me. During college I would spend half the day absolutely lost in the books. It was here, I discovered Frank Lloyd Wright, Shakespeare, and the writings of Paramahansa Yogananda just to name a few.

When I was finished at the Book Loft I would usually stop at the coffee house next door and write. Much of my early poetry was written in this place. The storefront looks nothing like it used to in the early nineties. Back then it was called Cup A Joe.

On our way to the North Market for lunch we rolled by an old haunt of mine, The Char Bar. This place hasn’t changed at all since I was last there, in fact this probably provided me my biggest flashback of the day. I used to play pool here, for money. It seems like yesterday that my friend Matt and I would stroll into this place, order a couple of Sam Adams beers and shoot pool into the wee hours of the morning.

Our final stop was the North Market for lunch. There were almost too many delicious choices to choose just one.

Today was bittersweet. More than anything I realized how far time had marched on since I was last here. German Village is clearly in a cycle of decline and didn’t hold the same charm for me as it once did. Nevertheless, this was a good day. After all, it’s not the places or geographical locations that mean the most in life, it’s the people.

This was a good day because I spent some quality time with two people that I owe the world to. Yes, we are different now but we connect on even more levels than we did back then. Although we talk on the phone almost every single day, there’s nothing like being in one another’s presence. As I get older, I realize that time is growing more scarce and precious. In every moment I spend with these two there is something to cherish. I am beyond grateful for these memories we made today.

Did you miss my first post about our road trip? If so click here to read it.


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Sometimes taking a journey down memory lane can be bitter/sweet. Thanks for sharing your personal experience and the pictures you took a long the way. I really appreciate posts like this!

I appreciate the kind words. As I've gotten older I try hard not to reminisce and stay in the present. It was truly bittersweet today. Thanks!

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You're welcome and I know what ya mean as I've felt that way before, too.
I'll look forward to checking out more of your future posts! Have a good night!

i love what you shared and thank you

Thank you for reading!

Glad to see you got the chance to revisit your home town. I can only imagine how happy you're feeling with all of the memories of your youth flowing in.

Thanks, @vangfo! It was a wonderful day, truly. Hope you had good luck in your trading today. : )

Reminds me Cedar Falls, Iowa.

They're very similar cities.

Thanks for share with us Eric!!! I like read you.

You're welcome, @malonmar. Thanks for taking the time to read it.

In your many posts, I feel warm. I really like that. Safe trip!! See you again @ericvancewalton

Thanks for all of your support @bontonstory! I appreciate you stopping by.

Beautiful and touching post. It's hard in a way to go back and see how time has passed and so much has changed and all the old friends are scattered. Bitter sweet is the word as you mentioned.

Thanks, @team101. It certainly is tough to come back. Columbus has a bad habit of focusing on one part of the city in terms of development and ignoring all of the others. Right now, what's getting the attention is the Arena District where the NHL hockey team plays because this brings the city tons of revenue. Areas like German Village and the Brewery District that once held so much potential seem to be completely ignored.

What a lovely journey life is. Change is good and familiar is comforting.

You are so right about that @lakshmi! Thank you!

lovely narrative and charming photos ~ a sweet tribute to your hometown and to those so dear to you !!

Such nostalgia! A walk down @ericvancewalton - lane. =D

Yes, nostalgia overload! : ) Today wasn't quite as taxing. Thanks for reading and for your comment!

I love how you put the details in your post, they waken the emotions tied to places similar to what you have mentioned and in some way similar to our experiences. Followed you... keep on posting!

Thanks for the follow @arnel and I appreciate the kind words!

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great post!

I can imagine this was an enjoyable journey :D
Really touching story.

Great story! I injoyed reading. Thank you!

I appreciate your kind words, @torem-di-torem.

ohio looks great. looks like a movie set from 90's.

You're right, some places haven't changed since the 90's!

So, do you still have plans to buy a house in German Village? Or maybe one day run the bookshop? Is the nostalgia strong enough to pull you back?

I'm not sure, @opheliafu. This place will always feel like home but my world has expanded so much in this past year. I think we need some time to soak it all up and process everything. I would love to see your part of the world. @fairytalelife has such good things to say about the UK. We may eventually end up being expats but only time will tell. : )

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I think bittersweet is the perfect word for trying to re-feel the past today. It will never match up to your memories!

Totally true @annhoyblog! The past is really just a ghost. I have so many things in the present to be thankful for!

love all the pictures

those little brick German houses are really cool! great post. thanks for sharing!!

Thanks! Those homes are really amazing. There were a few breweries in the area and many of those homes were built by the immigrants who were employed there. It's hard to believe they raised large families in those!

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Thanks, I'm happy you enjoyed it!

You are most welcome :)

excellent writing. so much enjoyable. upvoted :)

Coming back home after a long time is one of the most emotional moments in the life....

Looks familiar.
I like Ollie's, "good stuff cheap!"
I promote because it is a great find, and you can find things if you look.
Going home now, will come back when refreshed and can more appreciate.

So much great information! Lovely pics of everything, from you guys, to the scenery, and the nostalgia! Thank you sir!

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So fun to travel with you and hear about your life back then and your reflections now!

I'm glad you enjoyed it, Ruth! It almost feels like a whole other lifetime now.

I am a transplanted buckeye myself and just got back from the heart of it all! Most people associate Ohio with BLAH---- but there is still a lot of beautiful country in the state, as your photos show! Columbus and Cincinnati have just about conjoined but both have great places to visit! Skyline, White Castle, Graeter's...need I say more? Oh yeah-----GO REDS!!!

I like it because they have Ollie's - good stuff cheap!

Ahh, a fellow Buckeye! I have to say I was surprised at how much certain areas of the city have changed. The Brewery District and German Village are in serious decline but the Arena District is thriving. LOVE White Castles!

Excuse me, what dog has he eaten it?

A man from a small town ish...How long has it been since you have been home?