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It's a little obnoxious to come onto someone else's article and try to tell them how to word things and imply they are a bigot. If you don't like it, then don't read my stuff. The end.

Just to clarify things. First of all, I came to your article as I found it well written and interesting. I wanted to propose it to Curie. That is why I suggested to change the word, as I did find it offensive. It is your blog, you do what you want.

I apologize if you find my words offensive. Good Luck.

Thank you, but I don't consider speaking truth about reality to be bigotry just because it is unpleasant, and I stand by what I say. Thank you for your comments and concern,

I was genuine when I said your post was great. Your writing skills and story behind was great. I wish I could have proposed it to Curie, so it could get exposure. But guidelines are strict about controversial remarks. So just one word could have disqualified it. That's why I asked to change it, otherwise none of my business.

You do have some great writing skills, I think you should continue writing great posts like that. Persistence will be rewarded eventually.

Good Luck.