After ten years of living together, my husband said that we must part because he has long loved another woman. For me it was so unexpected that I immediately did not believe him, I thought it was a joke.
We did not have a smooth relationship with him, but I never noticed that he was cheating on me. Or, as my friend said, she did not want to notice. Maybe she's right. When my husband said that he was late at work, I believed.
Almost every weekend he went, then for fishing, then to the garage. I saw that he had changed, but I thought that we had been together for so long and he had cooled to me. I wanted to invite him to spend a vacation apart to understand if we need each other or not.
But my husband decided earlier and an unexpected way for me. I was hurt and hurt, I loved him as before, but nothing could be changed already.
After the divorce, I moved to my parents in another district. I had to change my job too, so I did not go so far. My daughter also went to a new school, for a long time she got used to teachers and classmates. But over time, we learned to live by ourselves, without a father and husband.
At work, I had a friend with whom we could talk, share our experiences and problems. My husband left me, and she did not find her soul mate in her thirties and already lost the hope to get married.
But one day she came to work so cheerful, and immediately told me that she had met a man, really married. But he said that his wife does not like and is going to leave the family. I immediately remembered how it hurt me, and told her that she was not looking for her happiness there.
After work, she arranged to meet him at a cafe and begged me to go with her, so she would not sit alone, waiting for him. Probably, the girlfriend still wanted me to see him and change my mind. I agreed, I do not know why myself. When a friend waved to someone, inviting us to our table, I turned around and saw my ex-husband. He stopped and could not understand where I came from. I got up and left.
After that, the girlfriend left, then she called me and said: "I'm sorry, but I can not live without it." I do not know if she is still with her, or is she again looking for another love?
Wow, that's like a story out of a movie. I can't believe it turned out to be your ex-husband she was meeting. I hope you're doing okay now and have been able to move on. Experiences like these are horrible tests we must overcome and use to become stronger.
I think you are looking good my dear