Thank you @crosheille
Like I said in the post I have always counted myself very lucky, no matter how bad I thought I had it, I always knew that someone was a lit worse of than me, this really helped me through these tough times.
Your question of what can we do? I think just by showing support to anyone who comes forward might encourage others to do the same, a lot of these victims feel ashamed and scared to speak out, but they need to see that no matter what, they have our support.
Thanks for reaching out and showing that you care.
Bless.