The guy lives at my expense and does not hurry to look for work

in #story7 years ago

6 months ago began to meet with a man, everything was good, walked around the city, came to visit, romance, feelings glow. He worked, but at one point he fell down the stairs and bruised his shoulder and leg. To work has ceased, bruises were ill about 3 months.

Relations gradually moved to a new stage and now we are living together, in an apartment that my parents bought me. he has no shelter, and for the first time I supported him, calmed him, because he could not find a job anywhere. Then I began to notice that he began to be impudent and did not hurry to work at all. Later, he generally shocked me, said that he has 2 convictions and the formation of 8 classes. Therefore, they do not hire him anywhere. We began to search together. He does not like any options, then a small salary, then hard, then far from home, etc. And I've been keeping it for 5 months, feeding it, giving money to travel, buying cigarettes, washing, cooking, cleaning. And in response nothing. By the way, my parents give me money. I'm still a student and do not work either.

Tried to talk with him about what the situation was, almost broke up. And I do not want to part, I'm already very used to it. And the most insulting in this situation is that he can not not let me go out with friends, classmates, is very angry when I go to someone for my birthday. Angry at the little things, always blames me for everything. I believe that as long as he lives on my means, and I provide it, he can not reproach me in any way. I am already confused in our relations and I do not know how to fix the situation that has arisen.

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i would dump him.

Ps. any advice for anxiety