When you’ve confronted with a big challenge where potential failure appears to lurk around the corner!!! you get frightened?
if so we can jump into our main topic that is what is confidence?
It can be defined as believing you are precious, worthwhile, and efficient, also called self-esteem and adding some optimism that comes when you are confident on your abilities, and then entitle by do things courageously to face a challenge directly.
So how can we get more confidence?
There are various factors that influence confidence. Firstly, your birth, for example your genes, which will influence things like the equilibrium of neurochemicals in your brain.
Secondly, how you're considered. This comprises of the social stress of your environment.
Finally, the things you have control over, the decisions you make, the chances or fears you take, and how you overcome about and deal with challenges and setbacks.
It may not be possible to absolutely comprehend these three factors,
However, the personal choices we take certainly play a key role in confidence evolution.
Therefore, by keeping this in mind some practical tips are here,
We do certainly have the power to stimulate our own confidence.
Tip 1: a rapid fix.
We can find some tricks that can offer you an immediate confidence boost for a less time.
Snap your success when you're triggering a difficult task. You can do something as easy as listening to music with deep bass.
It can flourish feelings of power. You can even make a powerful pose or give yourself a powerful talk.
Tip 2: believe in your potential to enhance. If you're looking for a tip which serves for life long, examine the way you believe about your abilities and skills. Do you feel they are established at birth? Or they can be improved, like a muscle?
These assumptions matter as they can affect how you act when you came across with setbacks.
If you have a stable mindset, meaning that you believe your skills are fixed in place, you may give up,
thinking you've learned something you are not good at. Instead, if you have an improved mindset and feel your abilities can thrive, a challenge is a favourable time to learn and flourish. It also says, people who have an improved mindset are often successful, like getting better grades, and dealing better in the challenges.
Tip 3: Accept failure.
If you're going to fail sometimes, some beautiful things may happen to you
Researches’ show that those who fail every time and keep trying somehow are better prepared to deal to challenges and setbacks in a beneficial way. They discover how to try various strategies, they ask others for suggestions and continue.
So, get ready for a challenge you desire to take on. Understand it's not going to be that simple. Convince that you are going to make mistakes, and be gentle to yourself when you make it. Give yourself a energy talk, face it. The pleasure you'll feel knowing that however the result could be, you'll have learned greater knowledge and comprehending.
This defines confidence.
That's what I'm talkin about! Become a boss! 💪🏼🙌🏼💯
Good tips. My #1 tip is ACT confident. Even if you are not 100%, or even 50% confident in a situation but you wan to be, act like you are. Most people are followers so if you SEEM to be in control people will believe you are and follow along. This has worked for me. Then once you see people believing you are confident it actually builds your confidence. Have a great day!
Its a good way of acquiring confidence. Have a nice day to you too :)
Great writup
Thanks..
A useful and interesting post, thanks for sharing :)
My pleasure :)
This is a very interesting post. thanks for sharing. And tremendous motivation. Greetings know my friends
My pleasure :)
Thank you my friend :-)
That was motivational, thank you! Your mindset is so important to success but it is often overlooked.
Yes, I do agree it but we can do it :)
Near to me what i think about to be confident in this society Usually parents who have insecurities pass these insecurities along to their children without noticing and on the other hand confident parents usually raise confident children without knowing anything about correct parenting methods.
Most people who want to build self confidence do the mistake of focusing on the traits they want to avoid instead of focusing on the traits they want to acquire. When the subconscious mind finds that someone is thinking of something all the time it starts to help him reach it even if it was something negative!! By focusing on the negative things those people find themselves moving towards the behavior they want to avoid
The reason this happens is that self confidence or lack of it is nothing more than a way of thinking that the person learns during his childhood. This means that self confidence has nothing to do with inheritance or genes but instead its all about a set of beliefs that a person carries.The good news is that even if you are not a confident person now you can still learn how to think like confident people and so become a confident person,Self confidence is nothing more than a set of beliefs a person has about himself. Those beliefs are constructed as a result of the person's way of thinking. In other words if a person kept thinking in a certain way he will end up with certain beliefs.This is why thinking like a confident person for sometime can actually make you a confident person. Try to adhere to those ways of thinking for some time and you will notice your negative beliefs changing.
Few tips more. Totally agreed.
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@dommaraju, that's a very constructive blog. and the 3 tips are really worthwhile to check out to build confidence. Nice work.
Thank you :)
I think there is something missing to boost confidence which is to fool your brain. your brain is not as clever as people think and it can be deceived. In fact, saying out loud how beautiful and how perfect you are is going to convince yourself of both things, for the same theory on which the laughter yoga is based on.
This is amazing I especially love Tip #2