Thanks for the info!
The 9mm that I consider to be MY GUN, is a Glock 19 gen 4. It is a very light weapon when empty, but gets heavy with a fully loaded magazine. I chose it because of the smaller grip size. (I have small hands)
I also have to think about kick. I lost of lot of strength in my arms and legs both from the accident. The last time I tried to shoot the AR15, it put me on the ground, lol. That is another reason I like my baby glock, the recoil is very light compared to standard sizes.
I am sure Daddy or my brother have a 38 or know someone I can borrow one from for target practice. I will try one out before I buy one to carry and make sure I can handle it.
Try out the Sig Sauer P238 for a great lightweight, small, purse sized weapon...it fires a .380 round so at least it will pack more punch than a .22 but the kick isn't bad at all! I carry mine in a little Vera Bradley hipster sometimes, and you'd have no idea it was there.
Thanks for the info. I will check into it before buying a gun. I don't have to make a quick decision. My little Mini Glock is small enough to fit in my purse and will work until I can get something even lighter.