I celebrate value whenever and wherever I see someone or something with value.
@ceepee is a lady I met recently on whatsapp through @eunireal1 whom I started exchanging my SBD/STEEM to Nigerian naira on a good rate and last week I read a shocking post which revealed her identity as a female pilot and also a crypto enthusiast who is into many cryptocurrencies.
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I felt so happy that indeed Nigerians are not lazy people and also she is indeed a compact of brain and beauty, and not a lady whose only asset is their boobs and butt. I decided to put up this post to challenge single ladies out there who depend on men for everything they need as single ladies.
The saying "brain and beauty" is very common over here in Nigeria but only a very few understand what it means to be really brain and beauty.
When I hear some ladies say:
But are the lazy and non industrious type that depend on men for everything they need as single ladies then it amazes me how that statement above can be really true about them.
Brain and beauty is not plenty makeup with a brain that offers nothing to the society or even to that individual. It is beyond makeup my sister, go and task your brain to bring out values.
I don't have a girlfriend and don't intend having one but it amazes me when I see ladies bragging about what their so called boyfriend did for them and I just laugh at how shallow some ladies can be. This is one of the reasons for many heart breaks among ladies when a man waves them goodbye and they come to the conclusion that all men are wicked and the same but let me ask you: Is your father also wicked since you said all men are the same?
Men are treating you like trash because your brain has not come up with some creativity that will give you respect from men and for men to think twice before even saying hello to you. My dear make your life productive and see that respect and honour you need.
No man these days will ever want to marry a woman that will just be a house wife alone but a woman that brings value to the home and financial contributions to the upkeep of the home.
Sister slay queen, there is more you can offer beyond your body and offering sex for money. There is more assets in you beyond just boobs and butts. Many single ladies are busy doing body enlargement and all that, my friend what you need is
BRAIN ENLARGEMENT!
Enlarge your thinking ability and come out with something.
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You may say there is no money to go to school but I came to discover that going to school and being educated are two different things. You can educate yourself even without going to school!. Make google your friend and you will find knowledge.
Wawu, this is truly amazing
Brain & beauty is useless for me if Love is missing. 😀 Be a lady with so much love in youself and have much love arounds you. With love you will be respected. With love a man will help you be respected, loved and valued. With love you can stand by yourself because you feel so much love in you and in others. Without love you are nothing no matter how intelligent and beautiful you are. Love is all that matter for me. 😀😀😀💖💖💖
To the ladies out there,
Ok ma. I hear but love not enough.
Nice one bro.
I'm just a bit of a weirdo though.
Yeah! Beauty is good (at least something will have to attract you to a lady first), but I look beyond that. Also getting a hardworking girl is also good, but I also look beyond that. Experiences have taught me to look beyond what I see.
For me; "attitude and character" is the prior consideration before every other things come.
And to @ceepee, she is one of the ladies I salute some much in the crypto world. More grace ma'am
Thank you sir.
True talk my brother. Beauty at times deceives.
thanks for that encouragement. I think u have just taught a lesson to the ladies on this platform.
If only they will learn it and apply it.
ladies out there, i sincerely hope u are reading this and are challenged to apply it to your lives!.
Thank you dear. And congrats for the growth on steemit. I can see you are really applying the article I gave you to read. Keep excelling my sister.
No instead I thank you for this article and for the information. May God bless you abundantly.
Amen!
Thank you @inspiredgideon1. This opinion from a guy says a lot. I think it should give ladies food for thought. You are absolutely right with what you said about men respecting brains and beauty and not just beauty. I personally do not have respect for ladies who depend on men for everything.
I will share something with you.
While growing up, I hear guys say, women like money, women are fish brain, you can get any woman, as long as you have money and all sort disrespecting woman. Those words will hurt me so much that I told myself no man will ever feel they can buy me with money or gift.
Truth is if I was a guy, I probably may not have had a girlfriend, cos I have the policy of not given a lady a gift she cannot afford.
Take for instance, as a guy, I will not buy an Iphone x for a lady who cannot afford to work to earn herself a nokia 3310.
Omg! This comment is almost as long as the post. I'm kidding :)
Maybe I'm a little bit different there. Ever heard of "sacrifice"? That's actually the beauty of life. If I give someone what she can't afford; from my heart without strings attached; it would go a long way to put smiles on her face. And that's the beauty of life; putting smiles on people's faces. That's what posterity remembers.
If a lady that can afford a Lamborghini is gifted a Camry, she may not value it the same way that a lady who can't afford a motorcycle would. Now, that's sacrifices; and not hoping for anything in return.
I'm a product of sacrifices, and I would be ungrateful not to do the same for people.
Hello @samminator. Thanks for stopping by and for the awesome reply.
Just to buttress my point, I do not actually mean, gift should not be given to ladies. On the contrary, I feel every lady deserve to be pampered with gift, expensive once at that. Same applies to guys too.
But my point here is, there are people who do not give value to money or goods because they haven't really earn or work to earn something. Being able to afford something, does not necessarily mean monetary value. It means how much the person applies value to something. And this applies to both gender. Reason why I was specific about ladies, is because of what is been seen out there.
Take for instance, you meet a lady who has no source of income, then you want to give her something to help, and all she is asking for is a car, iphone x, trip to dubai for shopping.
To me, that lady could actually ask for something that would give her earning that can get her a car. If not she will continue to ask until no one to ask. Then in a bid to keep up with the high life, she steals, borrow or trade sex for money. I don't think she has given herself some sort of respect by doing that.
True talk my sister.
@samminator I do help ladies so much especially those who have decided not to depend on men but don't have. I easily to such ones. In fact I help ladies more than help guys because if a girl goes weird it's hard to control her to normality again.
Great post dear, its quite inspiring!
Kudos to you @ceepee, i wish you many more heights
Thank you
Thanks dear for coming around.
Be that single lady that men will fear and respect because of your brain output and not that lady that attract men only with her boobs and butt
True
Lol....yeah true
Wow! This right here is a real man.
You, good Sir @inspiregideon1 is a real man because you celebrate and support women of strength and substance. Most men feel intimidated and their ego tapped and thus they disrespect us, women, to make themselves feel like a bigger man.
To you Ma'am @ceepee, Kudos and more power! It feels great to know of women like you who stands up to the challenges of being a strong independent woman.
Much respect to both of you @ceepee and @inspiregideon1!!
Thank you.
👏👏👏 @ceepee, you are an inspiration..
Thank you
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Thank you bro.
Thank you for the encouragement @inspiredgideon1. I know @ceepee personally and I also think she embodies a lot far beyond just her physical appearance.
However, i disagree with how you made your point, a woman may decide to use 'plenty makeup' and still match up any other human in a boardroom.It is her choice to make.
Alluding to the fact that a woman that is into her outward appearance generally referred to as slay queens, is an empty head is a wide and wild generalization.
You could also have made your point without saying 'no man will want to marry a woman that has nothing to offer'. I stand corrected but I think a woman's need to be more valuable shouldn't only be because of the need to attract a man into her life. She can be better for herself.
I do get the point you are trying to make all in all, I just thought that I had to point out what I noticed.
Thank you again for sharing.
Thanks sis. You are just one awesome definition of beauty and brain, being that I know you personally. Yes I do agree with you, wearing make up does not take the brain away, as a matter of fact, looking good is good business. If you really wanna get to show of your brains, the physical appearance is the first point of attraction in most cases. Judging by the fact that beauty always attract.
I guess, @inspiredgideon1, has seen so many ladies out there who flaunt body asset as all they got,(quite true and so many). And they happened to nickname them slay queen.
Someone once use that phrase 'slay queen' on me and I kinna found that offensive. Maybe is the way is been used around.
Thanks for stopping here sis. Good to see you around.
Thank you @ceepee for bailing me out. You just expressed my thought.
I see so many indecent ladies on campus and out carrying big phones around and hanging around guys, that's why I made mention of that slay queen.
@fissyfays am sorry if that statement annoyed you. It was never intended so.
@inspiredgideon1, haba! I was not annoyed. It is just that the society is quick changing especially in the gender space, so there can be misinterpretations on perceived generalizations. Chimamanda had to do a lot of damage control recenlty based on her views. We are all learning. And thank you again for acknowledging the place of someone like @ceepee
Thanks for understanding me as well.