The seed of a plant has the full potential to grow into whatever information is stored in. If you put an appleseed into an environment, where all its needs are fulfilled to grow into the best appletree possible. It would be easy just as living for the seed to get its thriving going.
But what happens, if a pearseed is in the apple environment in between other appletrees?
Would it still grow?
How easy would it be for it? And would it adapt "apple characteristics"?
What quality would the pear have?
If the pearseed had a free will to want or don't want. And the pearseed's biggest wish would be to be an apple. The best it could do is to plant itself in the apple environment. It learns the characteristics. It grows like an appletree.
slowly integrate information of the appletrees and combines it with its prestored pear dna.
The outcome is something new. A new creation through process and determination. And this is something we admire, isn't it? Having the best of two worlds. A juicy Applepear or Pearapple (depends on the dominant characteristics).
If the appletrees would have a narrow human mindset, they would laugh at the pearseed, they would say it can't be an apple and it should go "where the fuck it belongs to".
So the pearseed would live in the pear environment. Living a boring life, and drowning in bitterness because of rejection. Sounds familiar?
Why do we think we are an exception? Maybe we work in the same principles and just the thought that we are an exception, makes us struggle? Let everyone help to grow into whatever they want and be of support if it is you that contains the information that the sprout is in need of.
as long as your growth isn't based on death of others, it's totally fine. (So being Cancer is not a preferable option)
we are sprouts.
So cheers to all pearseeds, which grow in apple territory and cheers to all apples, which are brave enough to grow in pear territory. and all other sprouts, which want to evolve into something more.
cumulate information and set the goal that your fruits will be of high quality. get sure you are in the destined environment. get your necessary nutritions and let the sky be of service for the process.
growth is a journey best experienced with love for its own sake.