Sometimes when someone wants to tell you something, I think you should just give them the opportunity to speak rather than make conclusions for them.
Making conclusions for people has a way of ruining things for you personally and even for the person.
For instance, there was this man who always wanted to tell his wife about the way the house help his wife took like a sister has been trying to seduce him, but every time he tries to brings up the topic with his wife, she thinks he wants to talk about the lady being a good child.
She kept on making conclusions until the day she stormed into the house and she found the maid undressed in her matrimonial room, she felt like stabbing her husband as she felt really insulted.
The husband tried to explain to her but she just wouldn't listean, he told her about how he has been trying to let her know what was happening all these while but she just kept on making conclusions.
Although, the man did not have anything with the maid, but the wife was really filled with reret, she wish she had listeaned to her husband earlier and had not tried to think she knows what he wants to talk about.
This is a bad habit that people have, they always think they know what others have in mind without even giving them the opportunity to express themselves.