Putting my life in order wasn’t by magic, it took intentionality and it wasn’t easy.
I began with becoming solution driven, problems need solution, not complaints.
When I was younger I spoke about all the things I plan to do when I get to a certain age, then age came and I realized I needed money, then the pursuit of money left me with little time to do a lot of those things I thought I would when I have the kind of money I have now.
I used to be afraid a lot, it was a hindrance for me. Fear of failure, fear of the unknown, fear of loss and I generally do not like stress
You have to understand something about being focused, it’s just like when you hear someone say “courage is not the absence of fear, but the judgement that’s something is more important than fear”-Ambrose Redmoon-
There lies the key.
The judgement in this sense is decision, resolve and determination. When you realize that nothing else matters, you outline what takes priority, then you can begin your journey to becoming financially free.
The ability to be focused is not the absence of distractions, it is your firm resolve to stay on task even with the distractions
There’s nothing wrong in being afraid, in fact, it’s a proof that you’re human. But fear should never hold you back, fear teaches me caution. Fear helps me understand that I need to be careful in my steps and decisions.
It’s all about who wants it more, how much do you really want what will change your life or is all just based of desire.
You need a firm resolve, when you face challenges along the way, you’ll remind why you started what you’re doing and your firm resolve keeps you going
Staying grounded and focused is the foundation, the next step I took in the direction of growing my finances was order.
There’s an order to things, it’s not about doing so much or everything you can, good as it may sound. You need to have and follow priority. This is a game changer.
To me, everything should have a purpose, since I can now focus even with distractions, I knew I had to be focusing on the right things. Focus is important, but will be a waste of time and resources if you were focused on the wrong things. What creating order does is that it channels your focus
Whether you’re in business, you have a job or you’re chasing a career or maybe you’re a student, you have to always focus on what is important.
“What you listen to determines the direction of your”
You should never understand the power of influence over your life.
As you learn to focus on priorities, another important thing you need to know is how to manage the aspects of your life, successful people today value their time, energy and resources.
In order to be able to grow that business or in your career, before you’ll be able to manage other people you need to begin with yourself because you can’t give what you don’t have.
Then you need people skills, learn to communicate effectively, this made a whole lot of difference as I always had to manage people. It was kind of a struggle as I always preferred working by myself.
People are different and unique in their own ways, depending on their backgrounds, exposure and environment, people tend to view life differently. Someone who grew up in Africa, China, America or Europe would certainly having different views and opinions but what will unite you is interests.
Most importantly, you need to become financially literate, I saved the best for last. You need to learn how money works, I couldn’t possibly tell you all I know in this text, if your resolve is firm, you’ve decided to put your life in order then you’ll natural want to learn it.
What I’ve done here is summarize some of the steps I took in putting my life in order, it has worked for so many people and it will work for you as well, only of you’re disciplined, determined and focused enough.
Thanks for reading.
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