Sounds to me like you guys have a plan and that's what it's all about I guess. Spending less than you earn is a big step as many just can't seem to do it. Being a little stubborn can mean you're also less inclined to overspend (stubbornness to not over spend is a good thing)
So, if what you're doing works Ry, then it's all good. We could all do better, but those that are doing something are better off than those not.