But be warned, it's not an easy place to be.
You're reading "in love" like you would a state of being. Except it's more like you're in France. Or whatever place makes you happy. You're not in a state, but in a place, and while certain places affect our state (how could I ever be sad in London, for instance?), it's not the same. When you're in love, you look to the right and the left and feel it. Like I do now. On my shoulders and brushing against my belly.
Love is like an oats bath. Like fresh milk. It's clean because it allows me to forget all the ways in which I've been dirty before.
I'm at a sort of funny place which makes me want to write upside-down and make sense of the senseless (what tenacity. What foolhardiness, little mouse.). Love is. But not the mushy gushy left-of-center-intestine butterflies and soul critters.
I'm at a place in my life where I am learning to be in love even when my head clears. Where I am learning to hold space and hold on to the people who touch my soul. I feel with each new morning exuberant. And rich. So, so wealthy. To look around me on any given afternoon and see love is one day less when I need to experience hate, the hideousness of living for yourself, against your own self, with no one to cherish but yourself. That's not my idea of a desirable life.
I've spent the better part of fifteen years being in love in the traditional sense. I've always had little loves and then slightly bigger loves. I've always designed objects of affection, but I've never been in this place before. I thought love was dependant on the person, but now I'm starting to think it's the other way around.
That my love is not man-bound, but universe-led. That all I have to do in order to stay here is be open. Be truthful. I let my light guide me, and I never need be out of love.
It's a beautiful place, but relocation has been challenging. I've realized that despite all the sonnets and the ballads, I do not speak the language. I struggle with love as a result of twenty-five years of having it explained to me in certain terms. I struggle seeing love is more and beyond and that the terms that best describe it... I don't understand.
I am a writer. If there is one thing I understand, it's words. Or so I thought. I read the definition of love on the walls and marvel at the taste of foreign syllables in my mouth. There follow long periods of silence. And those, I fill with song.
Songs like pathways through this unfamiliar place.
Oh, I'm a lucky man
To count on both hands
The ones I love
Some folks just have one
Yeah, others they got none
Stay with me
Let's just breathe
It's sweet, and it's sad, and it's true
How it doesn't look bitter on you
Hi, @ablaze. Thank you for making me listen.
How can it be that we seem to be so connected all the time?
Can you imagine how many times I started to write in recent days and all the words just went upside down and all over the place? And I couldn't sit still to find ways to put into words what I feel...
Happy to hear that you are in that space or place:)❤️
I don't know, love. I wonder the same thing. Maybe we are connected. :) Always happy to see you around. Gonna go read your post now :D See where your adventurous feet have carried you.
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Oh love is in the air it seems. What a beautiful write up and I love your song choices as well. Bug hug to you lovely xxx