It's a privilege to be heard, my friend, and there was much in your post that stirred me to the depths, @rok-sivante --life lessons, as you correctly point out that are not to be found in books!
I don't have kids either, but I trust life Life knows best. Thank you, for the occasion to meditate on life's mysteries and it makes me very happy to know that my words resonate with you <3_/|_
PS - Would love to visit Bali, one day :)