Learning to get stone cold as survival strategy resonates with me. I don't know your story but reading your article gives me the impression that a lot of thing were thrown at you. My honest respect that you are here today - so self reflected and with positive goals.
What I learned from being a stone - when you get older (unfortunately getting 40 is only about 1 year ahead) - is that it is a strong survival strategy (which is part of the problem) but makes you hurt sometimes people you don't want to heart. I am trying to work on transforming that stone into a planet - stone on the outside but a warm lava core - and sometime, just sometimes the stone shell cracks and the lava comes out.
All the best in achieving your ambitious goals.
I don't really mean to get stone cold and I wish I am not, but that was how things turned out... I try not to hurt people in the process, or in this life. It is hard to care if my own survival has to come first. I hope that by helping myself I would be able to help others someday....
Thanks for dropping by!
You're not stone cold - Not if you try not to hurt people, as you live your life.
More like @famunger model, of a planet ! lol
Ok thanks, good thing I feel like I'm the one who is always being hurt. I must be the receiver of all the stone colds lol.