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RE: Are You Scared to Be Alone?

in #travel7 years ago

Back in the day before I got married I used to travel alone quite a lot. The best part of it is freedom. You may come and go as you please. There is no one complaining or creating a need to compromise. But traveling alone may get a little lonely at times.

I wish some day to find someone who I can share my life with and feel just as good in that company as I do alone. I'm not holding my breath for that...

That's a very healthy attitude. If you find someone you like spending time with as much as being alone, you should take into account that the quality of your time together will probably be at its best in the beginning. Anyone should know their potential marriage partners as well as possible before taking the decisive step. But it gets worse because people change. And if you have kids, you can kiss your freedom and your money goodbye. There are upsides to having a family, of course, but peace, quiet, freedom and minimal stress are definitely not among them.