Hats off to you guys.
I can't imagine the challenges you have, even reading through your post.
Your daughter, will benefit enormously through "this adventure", real schooling.
Your post inspired me to research, amongst others I found this article, not forcibly related but interesting read.
See this "Rise of the home ‘unschoolers"...article may be of interest to you guys.
Keep on posting and live in the now!