As the year comes to an end it is important to reflect what changes we have developed in our lives, our personality, our character and nature..
I think these changes are mainly because of the circumstances that time put us in...new year, new changes. some are good and some are bad, some healthy and some toxic.
but these changes don't stop life, infact these changes are experiences that tell you that life is not what you think it is, it is not a fairytale but simply reality and reality is harsh.
when I share my experience I can not say that this year was great for me.
To be honest it exhausted me, mentally and emotionally.
To many bad things happened for which I wasn't ready for....
This year was mostly of goodbyes.
Whether is was a sudden death or a loved one or closing up a chapter of your life that was so precious to you...
These goodbyes were excruciating...and I don't want to go through these experiences ever again....but on the bright side these experiences have taught me some very good lessons..
- losing people is part of life and how no matter how hard you try, if they are meant to leave they will leave.
- and it is not true friendship if you are not appreciated for the sacrifices you made for them.
This year has been full of challenges, but it has also been full of growth and progress. I've learned more about myself, my relationships, and the world around me and realized those moments or glimpse of happiness are our path leading us through the darkness into the light and these moments are our savior from the harsh reality.
These moments have made me stronger and more resilient.
As we look ahead to a new year, let's be sure to carry both our successes and struggles with us. We can use the lessons we've learned this year to help guide us in the year ahead.
Here's to a new year full of growth, joy, and possibility. Happy New Year!
