How others judge us, may be exactly as we judge ourselves. When we still can not accept ourselves as we are, others can not accept us for what they are. Others will make unfair comparisons of us. But above all we have to accept that judgment gracefully. That way, then changed how to assess ourselves.
After we do good things for ourselves by doing the best we can do, then let others with their minds.
If we still find other people who always think of us as "different" or rude, nothing special, leave it alone! Everyone has the right to judge by his own assumptions and thoughts. Try to think positive and keep doing self-correction. Because, who knows, even though we believe we have done many good things in our lives, one time we forget the study of mistakes that affect others. Forget about what they think. Close the ears! Do not let others expect too much of what we can give. Do not make a loss for yourself Because of their narrow mind. We've done our best yet, have not we?
And most importantly our pain should not be compensated by hurting others, if we do just as we are with them. For that before we are convinced that we have done the best for ourselves and others. See the positive side of people's view of us. The ones who know best about ourselves are ourselves, then why do we think of what others want of us?.