You should go back under a new handle and do it, and document the responses. Ha. Choose a male name too, as they'll hate that even more(which again is counter to claims on equality).
I want everyone to get along too. Most of my writing is about this very issue. But, I do still find misplaced anger to be one of the funniest things in existence, so it is really hard for me not to intentionally wind someone up who I know is easily wound up. I feel it can be a lesson for them if done correctly..