Misunderstandings is really always there in a relationship. There will be always be problems. But the only difference is, HOW YOU FACE THE PROBLEM.
They said, misunderstandings/fights are like spices in a recipe. It makes the food tastier. Or, in a relationship, it makes it stronger.
But, which one will it be? Can a misunderstanding really make a relationship or break it?
Earlier, we had another round of misunderstandings. I got mad at my boyfriend because, I was chatting my aunt and she was telling me not to rely on him fully and all that stuff. And, I was trying to talk to him about it but, he wasn't even answering me and he was there, playing on the phone.
He gets mad at me when I don't talk to him but when I talk, he's not even paying attention that is why I got mad.
He was telling me that I sounded so cold on him. How would you even keep yourself lively if you are mad? Can you please teach me how?
And, I have a lot of things going on these days that I even feel so empty and exhausted. We haven't finished preparing for the Mothers' Day celebration yet and we do not have enough time left. And, more, we will be having the Vacation Bible School next week and we have A LOT of things that we need to prepare. And, we even need to study our lessons. And, invest more more more prayers! And, I am still thinking about my aunt and the thought that my boyfriend won't be able to go with them this coming July.
And earlier, DEPED called me about my application and they wanted me to go to their office for the interview so, I had to hurry and go there. I told him about it, YES. But he told me I was being mean to him.
I don't know why. Am I really mean? Is it mean to feel empty? Is it mean to have a lot of things to tend to?
Maybe, he just really need to learn to understand sometimes. My world doesn't just revolve around him. I am still trying to find a job because I know, in Steemit, it is not Christmas every day. So, I need a real stable job.
He doesn't seem to understand me. When I get upset, he gets upset, too. I don't know why because I believe in a relationship, if one gets upset, the other should stand and stay strong and help the other one carry the burden he/she is carrying. (I hope he'll learn that) I am not trying to be demanding here. I am not trying to be a controlling girlfriend. But, don't you agree? In a relationship, your boyfriend/girlfriend should be the one you can always count on to. That is why we call them "partners".
We have a lot of ups and downs these days and he was even saying we might not make it 'till the end. But, I still believe we can. I guess, both of us just really need to mature. We need to learn how to stand for each other.
He's getting so negative about our relationship but, I want to stand strong and fight for it because this is what I want. I want to end up with him.
But, I am just a human, too. I also get tired.
I hope he's going to be there helping me carry the loads I am carrying rather than adding loads for me to carry. :(
But, at least, we're fine now. We just have to talk about it more.
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glad ok na kayo sis:)
HAHA! :D Oo nga sis ehhh.. Haay buhay talaga nuh parang ferris wheel ride :D
Every relationship has and will continue to have hurdles. I'm sure you love your Aunt, as anyone would, but in the end you know what you want. Go with your feelings.
Hehehe, thanks for the advice. :) And yes, there will always be hurdles in a relationship. We really just have to learn how to deal with it. :D
Misunderstanding is one of the major reason why people are facing problems. If you are facing misunderstanding problem, then it will not stop until and unless the two of you trust each other. But I am glad, you guys are okay na :) Xoxoxo
Tama ka diyan sis! :) Trust lang eh. I trust him naman pero siya, parang walang trust sakin. :( Pero, I'm letting him work on it. Oo nga eh :) :) Okay na kami.. :) :)
normal lang yan sis:)
patatagan kayo sabi nga
lilipas den yan unting lambingan lang hehe
keep shining sis.
HAHA! :D Oo nga sis. :) :) Salamaaat :) Lilipas lang talaga. :) Maging matatag lang :) :)
Yes! You're absolutely right @creyestxsa94 misunderstanding is always the reason why couples/partners always or get separated. But once you how to manage the problems everything will be okay.
Yup. hehe :) I am learning. :D :)
It depends
It might break a relationship
It might make a relationship
True. It just really depends on how you deal with it, right? :D
Yes
It depends on how you are willing to humble yourself and let go of your pride. Someone said that it is all about self acceptance. How willing are we to be selfless? What are we willing to sacrifice? If we keep counting what we can gain from this and expect more, then you will soon destroy each other.
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