Today I took two dogs out, the cool weather is characterized by the autumn of Hanoi made me a little sad. I remember the old memories ... from my early days in Hanoi.
I was born in a small village, in a province about 80km from Hanoi. Therefore, after high school graduation, I have to go to Hanoi for college. I studied law, bachelor of law but has been out of school for 2 years already. After graduation, I do a job that has nothing to do with the law.
Whenever surfing newsfeed facebook look at friends wearing corporate suits look to be professional. Meanwhile, I always wear pajamas, T-shirts, shorts, sneakers to go everywhere. Friends are learning masters, lawyers, judges ... I'm at home writing articles, take care of dogs, cook, make the cake. Looks like there is something wrong...
I am at home as a freelancer. Previously, I also thought that I would pursue the law. Year 3 also went to practice law office, sometimes dreamed of becoming a good lawyer ... But after all, I left the law profession...
If I choose to do it again, maybe I will not go to college, I will learn to cook and make the cake. However, I just realized that my passion is 2 years ago before I was the only one who boiled eggs only! So after all, If the time has come back, I still study law or any specialization without having to cook or make cake-like now.
After all, to find out what I like, my passion.... is not simple at all ... to go through a lot of mistakes to recognize. Fortunately not too late and I can still pursue my passion in the present.
Sometimes I also think negatively, when the mood goes down, I see my friend is the officials, I was sad and a little hollow. But then I knew that the thought was silly, everyone had their own life with their own choices, as long as they were happy with that choice. Right?
At present, my life is okay, but everything in front of me is still quite vague. What do I like? I like to cook, I can answer right away. But how to make money from that passion, I have no answer. I still have to do other jobs to serve my passion.
Last night, when I join a cooking group, a 24-year-old friend showing off her fortune was an ultra-fine kitchen. I'm curious about her timeline and know that she can get rich from making the cake. She sells cake, then teaches to make the cake ... I admire so much! But I'm not confident enough to do that, I still feel so amateur...
What do I think is my final orientation? A person hired a writer or a baker who cooks for fun? That is not what I want ... I must be a specialist in a certain field!
I think I need to work harder and try harder!
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Don't give up on your dreams. If you find out your true passion in cooking, live with it, learn with it and finally, earn with it. Eventually, I believe that you will be successful if you use your talent at the right thing you'd love. I too joined the industry with many hopes and expectation, later on to realize that I can go beyond what I was doing, so I tooke the leap.
Em cảm ơn anh ạ! Em sẽ cố gắng bớt lười đi một chút và chăm hơn một chút :)
Whatever you want, when you're ready to make a decision you will have more power and energy to go the way which you've chosen, that's why it's so important to decide clearly before you do anything.
People often get stuck because they do not know what they want ... so when it comes to making decisions, you just have to do one thing is to do it. Thanks for your sharing
em cũng bảo ra cv mà anh hiệp k cho bảo nắng lắm. T.T
Chị cho 2 con cún theo đi để cno được chạy nhảy thôi chứ ko chủ động đi quay. Anh Thắng tự quay tự làm thôi :) hôm qua về bị cháy hết người vì nắng đó!
Em thấy ảnh trên fb chị r. Nắng thật đấy. Anh Thắng làm video trông nghệ quá! Chất bù cho đại ca nhà em. 😸
bạn nhà chị thích biên tập video và người có chút máu nghệ sĩ mà :)
i felt the same way for you...i think i'm still in it... i was very sad while seeing my friends in social media is very successful and happy.. what am i??
it's sure i done everything i can but now, i'm freelancer too from home.. as looking social media.. i became more embarassed of me.. i still dont know my future nor what would i be... i dont know... but i can feel the same way about you... you not alone there...
but look at the positive sign.. you just join a cooking course there.... if you joined in.. why not do it and ask around your friends there in cooking course. i'm sure you'll find the way... you can do it :))
wishing you the best there as always
I am also often ambiguous about my future, and I, like you, sometimes feel a bit embarrassed ... but I think everyone has a choice, if you choose to be a freelancer then you will have times feel the future is fuzzy. So, we will try and think positively about the future. Wish you will soon find your passion and accomplish that passion.
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Don’t feel sad when you see you right friends in corporate suits, looks nice and all but it’s a pain to wear them all day long hahaha. You studied law and are not working in law now? Maybe law wasn’t your thing, maybe you studied the wrong subject, in that case if you were wearing the suit like your friend you might end up one day being sad because you didn’t do what you love to do.
You feel so amateur that is why you think you cannot teach? Let me tell you something, you are wrong! I have had many hobbies in my life: rollerblading, singing in gospel choir and wedding group, photography, gardening and now worm farming. I was an amateur in all of them but I did end up teaching photography techniques to professional photographers and teaching worm farming to experienced gardeners.
What ever you’re experience and level are, there is always someone that does not know something that you know. All your cooking posts are amazing and your food look good and I bet they tastes even better! Start selling your food, if people want to learn, offer them to book some lessons with you, even basic lessons or one dish they don’t know but want to learn. The more you teach, the better you will know how to teach and the best is the more you teach cooking the better you will be at cooking.
I thank you for your advice. Friends in the law branch throughout the day complaining about boring work. Sure, if I follow the law profession I will also feel that way.
I do not feel confident, that is my biggest obstacle. I know a lot of people in Vietnam teach cooking but what they teach really "not good" :) but they are very confident.
In the future, I will have to break my "cocoon" to pursue my passion.
I admire you, the ability to sing, foreign languages .... It is true that each person has a strong point and should promote that strength!