Very interesting post. I like how you used the analogy of freeze tag. It is so true is many ways. I would add that often we let others freeze us especially if one does violence to ourselves. And if we don't forgive ourself of that self violence believing we are not worthy of forgiveness, a healer will not be able to permanently unfreeze our spirit.
I do believe that we are at a crossroads, though. We have many more in today's world who truly understand the spirit, no matter the discipline. We healers have a big job a head of ourselves in healing, even within ourselves.
I agree and I am grateful you brought up those points. Our own self-abuse is, at times, worse than what others do to us. Self forgiveness is a core component to self love, self acceptance and self governance. Very well stated.