When we look at words, they are only symbols. What is important is the meaning behind those symbols. I think we can all agree to that. Where confusion enters into relationships is when we have different meanings for those symbols. How can we communicate ideas when we cannot even agree on the meanings being represented when we use specific symbols?
I speak to this frequently in my blog posts and that is why I share the definitions. Because I KNOW that people have all different kinds of impressions, ideas, interpretations and comprehension of what words mean to them. That is why I take the approach I take. If they still disagree, that is their issue not mine. That is their path and journey, so I do move on.