You could always be be crazy like us and move to the Ozarks where our families could help one another in the goals of having our individual families together. Short of that drastic and life changing adventure, you could always do part time, or have your husband educate as well to ease the work load. It's not easy, that's for sure. In the end, if it's not working for your kids, another option could be explored. One that helps them love learning and keeps the family together more.
That really does sound fantastic in many ways!! We almost went with you! I wonder how much our life would be different, and if we would find happiness there. Definitely exploring options though. Thanks for your comment!! :)