How to show a girl that you really love her

1 Send her flowers. It may seem clichéd, but nothing says “I love you” like a beautiful bunch
of flowers. However, you should try to put a little
effort into it – don’t just pick up the first bunch
that’s on sale at the supermarket. Go the extra
mile by finding out from friends or family what
type of flowers are her favorite and have them specially delivered to her home. For added romance, you can attach a
romantic note to the flowers. It can be
something short and sweet like “beautiful
flowers for a beautiful girl” or something a
little lengthier, like a romantic quote from a
poem or song. If you’re short on cash, don’t worry. You
don’t need to buy the most expensive,
imported flowers available. In fact, a single
red rose or a freshly-picked bunch of
wildflowers can be infinitely more romantic
than a generic, pre-arranged bouquet.

2 Cook her favorite dinner. You can show a girl you love her by investing a little time and effort
into something that will make her happy, like
cooking her favorite dinner. If you’ve been
seeing her for a while, you should have a pretty
good idea of what she likes. Just don’t go for
anything too complicated if you’ve never made it before. Make the meal extra romantic by setting
the table nicely, lighting some candles and
playing some mood music in the background. You can choose to let her know what you’re
planning and tell her to dress nicely for
dinner or you can take her completely by
surprise – just make sure she’ll be home on
time and that she’ll definitely come home
alone! Don’t worry if you’re not a master chef, it’s
really the thought that counts. However, if
you’re worried about the food being at least
edible, you can try practicing your dish on
family or friends first. If you can’t afford to take her out to a
restaurant, and you don’t know how to
cook, ask to cook with her! Partners that do everyday things together have more fun and will be together longer. Try opening up the recipe book and baking together.

3 Write her a love letter . Writing a love letter is a truly romantic way to show a girl you love her
and is something she can cherish forever. This is
an especially good option if you have difficulty
verbalizing your feelings – all you need to do is
whip out a pen and let your heart do the talking.
You can give the letter to her in person or send it by mail for extra surprise factor. Take inspiration from the words of great
writers such as Shakespeare, Lord Byron or
Emily Dickinson if you have difficulty getting
started, or look up some famous, romantic
quotes that you can incorporate into your
letter. You could also write her a nice email or text
message, but there’s nothing like snail mail
for a bit of old-fashioned romance. Alternatively, if you want to get even more
creative you could try putting your feelings
into a song or a poem. You could sing the song in person or record it and send it to her if you’re feeling a little shy. If you play an instrument already, even better!

4 Take her out. Take some initiative and plan out a whole romantic evening for the two of you.
You could go the classic route of dinner and a
movie, or you could try to personalize the
experience by recreating your first date or taking
her to the place where the two of you first met.
The time and effort required to plan out a really special for the two of you will speak for itself and
she’ll know how much you care. Try to think about her interests rather than
your own – for example, you shouldn’t take
her bowling if you know she’d really prefer
to go ice skating. Try to come up with some creative ideas,
based on her interests and hobbies. If she’s
outgoing, take her hiking or paint-balling. If she likes to have fun, take her to a theme
park or arcade. If she’s more into music or
drama, get tickets to see a band or a play.

5 Compliment her. This is an easy one. If you really love this girl it should be no problem to
find 101 things you like about her and can
compliment her on. You can compliment her on
her appearance: whether it’s something she
prides herself on, like her long, shiny hair or
amazing green eyes, or something that she feels self-conscious about, like her curves or crooked
smile. You shouldn’t just focus on her
appearance though, you should also compliment
her on her best personality traits or something
she’s done well on. For example, you could tell her that you love
her kind heart and the way she’s always
doing things for others, or compliment her
on what a great job she did at a recent sports
event or on a particular homework
assignment. Compliments should always be sincere. If you
tell her something that’s not true, she may be
able to tell that the compliment is fake and
the whole thing will backfire completely.
Keep it genuine and heartfelt.

6 Surprise her. Surprises are a great way to show a girl that you’ve been thinking about her and that
you’re willing to do anything just to make her
smile. You don’t need to plan a massive party or
buy her a puppy or anything (though these
ideas may work in certain circumstances!) A
surprise can be as simple as showing up at her house with a tub of ice cream and her favorite
DVD when she’s had a bad day, or leaving a little
note in her purse or under her pillow to find
when she’s least expecting it. Some girls aren’t too fond of surprises, so if
you’re unsure about something you’re
planning, try to sneakily suss out her feelings
or slip her some subtle hints before you do
anything too crazy. This step only counts if it’s a good surprise –
it’s not advisable to show up with a tattoo of
her face on your forearm or the news that
you’re moving to another state. These type of
surprises typically don’t go down so well.