Self-esteem and selfishness in love

in #vn7 years ago

Self-esteem and selfishness in love


People say love is inherently selfish. But after all, if you are selfish in love, you end up loving that person, or just loving yourself?

You are more skeptical and jealous than sharing and caring. So you think that for the other half? Or do you only know the desire - want - ownership of the individual?

You are often angry, angry and narcissistic. The heat burned burning passionate warm love. So you at times like that worry you over that person or care about your own bad emotions.

In a love story, if you let the "I" stand above love, you have the right to ask for happiness? If you think love is a fight, who loves first, who is broken, who is broken, who loses and humiliates. Then you dream "forever together"? How many times have you put on the weight table: Love and Self-Esteem.Why your story has so many dark colors, there are moments of stress to choking, countless compressing pressures ... Then everything messes up, so great that the cut must stop. Stay alert and ask yourself why are you apart?

Until you truly love someone, there is no reason for you to suddenly get irritated or irritated, as there is no reason to break up. Since you love that person more than yourself, you will understand people before blame or blame.

You will stand in that person's place and accept everything - before the fool tramples on them and sits on the ruins left over - after a split love affair. You will know how busy people are and everyone needs a space to breathe freely. You will no longer blame yourself nor blame him for being insensitive or cold.
Love will teach you a lot of things, including the hurt that makes you stronger. So, when love comes, just go on, do not be lonely anymore!

There is a truth that not everyone recognizes: "There is someone to love - it is very happy, do not ask anything more because it is simply lonely," yes - people - love " This is the biggest demand. " Do not let your lover become stranger, understand that: I love people, more than myself.