We must abide by the commandments. We should also trust in ourselves that we were created fit for the duty of looking after ourselves.
This is not always possible, but it is our duty to try this first before believing that relief will come from outside sources.
In this case, you are not accompanied or led. You must lead. And trust that God is within you, in the fact that you are made whole and not half.
Yes for we must also be responsible for our actions (and inactions).
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